tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2105799931107229707.post3531821906191413181..comments2024-03-07T03:09:25.987-06:00Comments on Unlikely Otaku: For Aron: Eschewing LoveStephanie Barrhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17772217449161603561noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2105799931107229707.post-59790334948266852202009-07-13T12:08:26.160-05:002009-07-13T12:08:26.160-05:00Stephanie did a great job answering you. I agree d...Stephanie did a great job answering you. I agree do what is in your heart. Do not take books to mean literally what you read. Everyone reads something different in passages. Take life by the horns and shake it up!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13178737973585191754noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2105799931107229707.post-64420735394997715072009-07-13T09:35:05.726-05:002009-07-13T09:35:05.726-05:00As Stephanie points out, you are young, and attitu...As Stephanie points out, you are young, and attitudes change as you get older.<br /><br />Using an iron age book to set your moral structure does seem a bit of a poor choice.<br /><br />Remember, as you get older, sex is simply one way that adults relate to each other. It tends to be expected in relationships after a certain age. You may need to refine your views in light of that.The Motherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15157821003454766570noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2105799931107229707.post-31675828055824051222009-07-13T02:02:28.455-05:002009-07-13T02:02:28.455-05:00You may be right. While I didn't use the bibl...You may be right. While I didn't use the bible as my excuse not to have much of a life in my 20's, I didn't go out of my way to put myself in situations where I would experience life. <br /><br />When it's right for you to start dating, you'll know. And when it's right for other things...you'll know too. It's all about maturing and growing.<br /><br />Just because you're a workaholic, doesn't mean that you can't put yourself in some social situations. I was incredibly shy. When I finally figured out I was gay, I made myself find out what social events were in my area and I forced myself to go with the idea that I'm never going to meet anyone if I don't "socialize". <br /><br />Look for some social events that are related to your work. Begin meeting people socially. You may find that you just expand your circle of friends. Or you may find a few special people who are interested in dating you. If you don't at least get out there, you'll never know. And don't forget, you could find someone with your same moral values.Lolahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17385290159403288196noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2105799931107229707.post-57299966272494018342009-07-12T22:01:37.390-05:002009-07-12T22:01:37.390-05:00I really want to look at how I made this decision....I really want to look at how I made this decision. I fear I'm using the bible as an excuse to not have a life. I find that, without outside influence, I will tend to do more work. I am a workaholic, but I need to make such a decision about by moral system without that influence. <br /><br />No wonder people take pre-fabricated moral systems, this is tough. Thank you for being so open minded.Aron Sorahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09327072976517417107noreply@blogger.com